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Sunday, February 22, 2009

friendship

[ Music: Love like Oxygen - SHINee ]

when i was doing something just now
i realised that
friendship
is very hard to maintain.

i randomly told pris about this.
and we started chatting about it.

how do we maintain friendships?
people that come into your life
often will become a friend of yours
whether good friends,
casual ones
or just hi and bye.
they are still considered as friends
arent they?

progressing from being casual friends
to good friends
to best friends
wont be an easy task.

i asked
is it good to have some good friends and have long lasting friendships
or is it good to have a wide circle of friends with only short term friendship?
achieving both is not easy
really
but like wad pris said, its better to have good friends with strongly forged bonds.
true.
i think its very true.
having a large circle of friends doesnt mean you are better off
i would rather put more effort in maintaining a strong friendship.

in life we would meet alot of people.
the problem is
do we want to continue being friends
by making the effort to stay in contact with them?
but firstly.
who is responsible for taking the initiative, to keep the friendship?
if someone leaves an impact on you, usually you would keep in touch with them.
but those minor friends,
who should start showing effort to maintain this relationship?
you? or me?

when we try to make friends with people
we try to be friendly
yet they shun you
whose fault is it?
ours?
for not putting effort in trying?
or them?
the ones who think you're nothing and not worthy of being their friend?

friends are people who make life interesting
but they are also the ones
who can hurt u
and neglect you
letting you feel lonely

as expected
2 years is not enough to achieve anything
not even to mention 3 months.
yet i still treasure their company.
even if we all slowly forget each other.

as memories fade....

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LINKS

LINKS(SECfriends);
Steven
TeeLeng
WenBin
Callum
Kai
BerFong

LINKS(JCfriends);
Ch3n(fluteSL)
Yenna(flautist2)
ZeXun(Juniorflautist1)
LittleJoy(Juniorflautist2)
Pris

LINKS(others);
NJC08S15blog
SAJCBANDblog
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